Friday, November 6, 2009

An oldie but a goodie...

Aiming Low is spreading the love with their Three Day Weekend which features stories submitted by bloggers. Mine is posted today. It's an oldie but a goodie from my archives.

Oh, and Jack came down this morning with this piece of wisdom:

"Uh, Mom, did you know in Fall... they usually show lots of Charlie Brown movies on TV."


Sunday, November 1, 2009

Halloween Revisited

It's official. Megan inherited my (and Jay's) I-Hate-Halloween gene. In hindsight, I should have known. There were those few years that I spent $75 or more on a costume, just to have Megan decide at the last minute she wanted to be something else. Then there was her hesitance to attend a birthday party where kids dressed up in Halloween costumes. Even as early as 2 years old, she was at a party at Gymboree and when Jimbo the Clown came out, Megan started screaming. As I said, the signs were there.

Last year, it surfaced hard core when she refused to wear a costume in the school parade. But even then, she rallied and participated in trick-or-treating.

This year, Megan cut the final ties. I thought I was being fiscally smart this year- I bought a $7 sheet, cut holes in it and Megan agreed to go as a ghost. But alas, it wasn't meant to be. At 8 years old, she has fully cut ties with Halloween. First, there was the melt down on the eve of the school parade. She didn't want to do it. When she came downstairs the morning of the parade all weepy, I relented. It's just a silly parade, I thought to myself and emailed her teacher asking to keep her out of the parade. Then, on Halloween, we were getting ready to go trick-or-treating and Megan decided she didn't want to do it. Even if it meant she wouldn't get any of the candy goodies that most other children her age craved. This, to me, was the final straw. This child hates this holiday so much, she will even forgo all candy!!!! So she walked along with us, costume-less watching all the kids in their costumes run like total lunatics from door to door- and she couldn't have cared less. Even when kids asked her incredulously, "You mean you aren't wearing a costume??? You aren't going to go trick-or-treating???" she just shrugged her shoulders.

And I must say, I love that she's an individual, that she doesn't care, that she'll stick to what she believes-even if it goes against the grain. And there's another part of me (as a Halloween hater myself) that is secretly pleased that she doesn't like this holiday, either.